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The Value Of Empathy: Why Giving Is Also Receiving

2nd June 2020

The science of happiness

There was a time when happiness was considered a ‘fluffy’ subject not worthy of attention from those in academia. However, with more people currently suffering from mental health issues than ever before, understanding what factors contribute to emotional well-being has become a top priority for some of the top establishments of learning in the world.

Helping others helps you

One consistent finding is that acts of altruism not only help the recipient to be happier, but they help the individual performing the act also.

For example, one study showed that executives who gave their bonuses away to help others returned greater happiness scores than those who kept the extra money.

Another study found that students given $20 in an experiment had higher happiness ratings when they spent the money on someone who needed it rather than on themselves.

So the evidence is clear. Helping others makes us happier. It’s as simple as that. But it goes deeper than this. By considering the needs of others we are adopting a more compassionate and empathetic mindset.

An attitude of kindness

The challenge we face at the moment is that many of us are experiencing fear or uncertainty during this pandemic. This may have an impact on what we focus on and how we behave towards others.

Khody Damestani, leading therapist and co-founder of mental health company, MyMindPal, explains why helping others is so important in these unprecedented times.

“When we feel threatened there is a tendency to become more focused on our need to protect ourselves,” he said.

“This could mean that we are more sensitive to negative information and less sensitive to the needs of others.

“It’s vital to remember that we are all experiencing this threat together, and while you may be responding in a different way to other people you observe, we are all just trying to do our best to process what’s happening and get on with our lives.

“By looking for opportunities to help others whom we can see are struggling, we will not only help them to cope, but it could help us to distract ourselves from our own fears.

“It will also encourage us to show a compassionate understanding towards others at a time when it’s much needed.”

Khody Damestani, leading therapist and co-founder of mental health company, MyMindPal, explains why helping others is so important in these unprecedented times.

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